Hi! Bi woman here. With Trump getting elected I’m wondering and seriously thinking about my future. I’m not sure if I want kids or not, but under this new administration it could mean not being able to unless I end up with a man, and even then it would still be dangerous for my body and life. I don’t want to be a stereotype but I feel I may have to succumb to just finding a nice guy to be with in order to be “safe.” This doesn’t mean I’d go back into the closet but I’d be living on the acceptable, heteronormative side of myself. Life would be easier that way. I know to some this may be an exaggeration but I’m nervous. It doesn’t help that I’m also battling some internalized homophobia/biphobia. I grew up religious and I was also recently rejected by a woman I was really into. Maybe all those are right. Maybe I don’t belong with another woman. I’m tired of being and feeling like “other.” I just want to be “normal.” I’m tired of obsessing over whether or not I’ll end up with the acceptable gender for myself. The election results only exacerbated this.