Okay, so I am being honest here and will pobably delete this later because I feel SUPER vulnerable. Also, please let me know if this isnt the right subreddit for this advice [I checked the rules, but will double check].

I am a bisexual [28] F. I have been out for a very long time. I have been happily single for a few years now [dating here and there]. However, I am learning I dont know I want a "traditional" relationship- maybe I am polyamorous, maybe I want to not commit to anything right now, idk. But I loce being single. So I feel it's the right time to figure out what I do want. I have always secretely wanted to be in a 3some or an orgy [especially all women]. I have queer and straight friends [typically only cis men] who have engaged in those spaces. However, as a woman I dont feel as safe actually trying or putting myself out there... Also I am bisexual and it's annoying that there is an assumption that "oh you're bi- let's have a 3 some" without knowing anything else about me or the assumption I would cheat (never have or will).

So Idk, I want to lean into my wants and desires, but I also hate the typical stereotype/assumption of bisexual folks and I am not sure how I would even go about this without people being scary or etc. Idk feels like a double standard 😭. I also worry about it impacying my career- but it's 2024! So, thoughts?