Idk if it’s just my brain or other people feel this way but when I was younger, my first experience of sexual attraction was with another girl in my class, I was pretty young 12, but I had a very serious crush on her.

I didn’t feel this way about guys until 16.

Anyways I’ve always been raised to believe that women should be attracted to men and I am attracted to men, women and trans people, romantically and sexually but with men it never lasts, I could be really into a guy for 6 months and then I just feel nothing after getting to know him.

It’s not that he’s a bad person, a switch just goes off in my head and I want nothing to do with that man sexually.

Met someone who seemed amazing for me last year and we actually dated but I just woke up one day and even the thought of seeing his dick made my skin crawl so I ended it, I’ve also noticed this with other guys I’ve dated but not all the time.

I’m kinda confused bc I have bpd and idk if that is the reason but generally I’m unable to sustain attraction to a person for that long, this happens with women sometimes as well, I even identified as aromantic at some point but I do feel romantic attraction so I really don’t know:/

It’s something I’m curious about but not something I’m suffering over as I don’t like to label myself anyway, but bisexual is what fits how I feel inside

Anybody else?