So I’ve been thinking about it lately for some reason, but I’ve been getting anxiety over my GF who has said she is bi. We’ve been dating for 3 years and I’ve always known she was bi but as of late its been worrying me. From my knowledge she has never been with another woman before and it stresses me out because what if one day in the future she wants to “experiment”? Or what if she realizes she likes women more.

I remember we were out drinking with some friends and a friend of ours there has a BF, well anyways she made a “joke” about how if she wasn’t with her current BF she would probably be with another woman, well I remember my GF looked at me, laughed and said the same thing. I didn’t think anything of it at the time and laughed along but now that plays in my head. this fear has only grown because I’ve heard about so many stories of bi women being with a man and then finally experimenting with a girl and then realizing they like girls more. I’m afraid thats what will happen here. I’m afraid in a few years or something she’ll get super curious about never being with another woman which may lead to her cheating to try it out, or just outright breaking up with me to try it.

The more I’ve thought about it, the more i feel like i want to give her the opportunity to try being with a girl sexually. (Not a threesome). My reasoning is, she’ll get to have that experience and if she realizes she likes women more, well then atleast the relationship can end atleast relatively early and not 5 years down the road where we maybe are married/have kids.

Thoughts?