So I (20m) am kind of bi-curious/bisexualit/pansexual (I'm not sure about it you can read in my last post about it). The reason why I'm posting this is because I'm kind of afraid of being called gay (I know it sounds dumb). I had some situations in the past where some people called me gay for fun or asked me if I'm bi/ if I like men. I always said no in situations like that and I don't really know why. I think it's because I'm afraid of being looked at in another way but it still feels a bit like I'm trapped (if thats the right word for that). I kind of have the feeling I can't be who I am but I still don't want to be seen in another way. It's all just confusing and I don't know what to do and I don't know what I even want.