There are so many details to this that I get overwhelmed and just skip it.

Tl;Dr my wife and I have been married for 6 years, she knows I've always had some kind of sexual interest in men, but I've never needed to act on it (while married to her- I've had sex with men before I met her.)

But lately, I've just been really REALLY having the urge to have sex with men.

I don't want to date them. I don't want to marry one. I definitely don't want to leave my wife. But when my libido raises, it's all I can think about.

I'm worried it will hurt my wife. I'm worried she will feel like she's not enough. I'm worried that these stupid biological urges will ruin our lives, all because I'm selfish.

I am kind of going through it right now and would love some advice or support.