So, my husband (37M) told me he thinks he is bisexual. I (38F) went through this phase when I was younger, I could go for either guys or girls, and had a few experiences myself. However, we have been married for 4 years and all of a sudden he is Bi. He has never been with a man, and if he wanted to, he is more than welcome to divorce me.

He doesn’t want his family to know, he doesn’t want to participate in pride, he would prefer an open marriage but I’m not down with that.. I understand he wants me to know all the parts of him.. but I’m having a hard wrapping my mind around it. When I was younger I would only tell people my sexuality if I was interested in dating them.. mostly women because if they don’t swing that way.. now they know. But I don’t celebrate it openly as my sexual life is private. Maybe someone can help me understand a little better.