(18M) I’m about to come out of the closet to my friends group as bi. I’m the only dude in a girls group (long story). I guess they will be supporting because one of them is also bi and another one is a lesbian, and they’re completely respectful about it. I feel like I really have to do it since I have been hiding my sexuality for almost three years from now to anyone (since I accepted myself), and I want to have certain support for when I want to come out to other people (such as my parents) who may not be as supporting (we’re on our last year of high school). The thing is that it’s very likely that I will be bombarded with questions about why hadn’t I said it before (we’ve known for over two years now) and what is my type of men. The answer to both questions is that I feel really uncomfortable talking about my sexuality. It makes me feel judged and observed (I was raised in a really vigilant, judging and homophobic family, who isn’t really keen on therapy). Also, I was waiting for a good moment to do it; things happened this two years. I wrote above that I guess they will be supporting because they always make fun of straight men who seem gay (as well as of men in general). In addition, they are likely to think I’m a confused or closeted gay, as I haven’t given many signs that I like women (It would have been weird; I’m the only man in the group). Any advice?