(To bisexual women) That’s it. Talk to women. Go on dating sites for women. Don’t wait for women to come to you. It’s not as scary as you think. The worst that can happen is they say no. We need to get out of this mindset that sapphic ladies will just approach us. Half the time they’re just as unsure as you. Be enthusiastic. If you want a real relationship with a woman, you need to put work into it. Don’t just settle for a man because he was the one who pursued you. YOU CAN PURSUE!! I’ve asked out every person I’ve dated— man or woman. Sapphic relationships are not going to be like straight ones, and that’s the point. We need to stop being comfortable with the roles that patriarchy have slapped onto us. Women aren’t scary. Bisexual women aren’t scary. Lesbians aren’t scary. Just be forward and stop expecting someone to come sweep you off your feet. You’ve got this. Go for her.