So came out a few days ago to my fiancé who I thought would accept me for who I am. Been together for 13 years, no kids together, but she has two boys, 22, 16 who I treat as my own. It’s not been plain sailing but what relationship is? She’s never been the tactile type where I will put my arms around her she has never instigated the same. I’ve not had a snog ‘ French kiss’ for 13 years. I was willing to suppress my Bi-ness, put it back in the box but she said no, be who you are. So came out to family, a few friends and now it’s gone to RAT shit. My old man thinks he’s failed as a father, I’m making my misses actually physically sick. She thinks I’m now going to need to explore my same sex side, which is not the case. I did love her, I still do, and will until the day I die, which my looking at it an’t far away.

I can’t cope, I’ve screwed it up. My advice would be this, for what my words are worth. If you’re Bi, and in a relationship tread so very carefully especially if you love them as deeply as I do. It might end relationships with family, friends and soul mates. 😢