So I(a female) will give some context that will make sense as you read. I have always been boy crazy and have also always enjoyed kissing. I am a chatty Cathy and will talk to strangers when we go out just because I enjoy meeting people and conversation.

So I am trying to learn about myself sexually as in kinks and likes and dislikes with my husband. He’s encouraging me to find out what turns me on obviously so he can do those things.

When we go out, I always gravitate to women which I’ve told my husband is because women feel more safe to just chat with and out of respect for my husband I’m not going to just run up to another man and strike up a conversation with the possibility of him(the other man) thinking I have certain intentions. Anyway, my husband is convinced I’m attracted to women and wants me to explore it. We believe life is too short not to explore kinks and we’re totally open about those things.

So now, I’m honestly questioning it. I love a strong women. I am a huge girls girl but now I am thinking “am I attracted to women or just infatuated with feminism?? I do know I love kissing women, but I’ve never thought about going further with one this far.

Any personal experiences, advice, anything would be so helpful! Thank you!!!

Edit: I forgot to add that I get hit on by women very often. So I’m not sure if it’s something I’m putting out there? Or they’re just being kind or whatever. That’s what also causes my confusion.