Like genuinely I don't know what to do. I'm on Hinge and I have been talking to this girl and the convo is going great.

From the beginning I thought we were going to be just friends and she seemed to firmly friend zone me which is fine I wasn't looking for anything serious and I enjoy talking to people.

But we've started flirting and the problem is I am partnered and married at that. It's on my profile and I say my intentions along with a few pictures of my rings (yeah the big engagement ring too) in it. But I haven't mentioned my partner yet! Usually I would have already and I want to so that I don't waste this girls time because we have started flirting. But I don't want to drop a bomb mid flirt. She mentioned meeting up and I don't want to make plans until I make sure it's clear that she knows 🥲

I don't want to lead anyone on, I am not looking for a new partner at this time. Again that's on my profile but some people don't read that and I hate to waste people's time.

Idk why I'm so nervous. But I need to tell her and idk when I am going to. Probably tomorrow, during the daytime, but at this point I don't know if I should be direct or casual about it. 😫