So, I [M25] recently came out to my gf F[28]. She was great about it. Being bi herself, she understood all of my concerns, worries and thoughts about coming out, especially to a partner. My one concern now is; how to explore my bi side, having never explored it before.

When I came out to my partner, I said that I had no interest In physically pursuing these thoughts. I feel like this might now be changing. She did say that she would fully support anything that I needed, as I did with her when she told me she was bi. However, she is a deeply jealous person and I know that if I told her I wanted to explore with guys, she would have an issue with it. We have spoken about this and she said she would be ok with it, as long as she was involved. But I know it wouldn’t be ok. One reason why I know, is that I literally can’t say the name of a previous ex. And it goes beyond that. Not even an ex, someone I dated in secondary school. She kicks off at even the slightest mention. As soon as, I don’t think I can actually come to her with this.

She hates porn, which is something I thought could help with this, having explored my own sexuality through porn. I feel like I can’t properly express myself and I’m not too sure what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciate x