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Am I being bigoted?
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I identify as bisexual. I am attracted to men and women (cis and trans, does not matter but just pointing out to help with responses) in pretty equal amounts with different preferences in each gender.

I have a preference (sexually) that women be feminine. I'm very feminine too. I am not attracted to masc women or androgeny in women and would not want to date or have sex with a masc presenting woman. I also like men to be securely masculine (in identity, not necessarily presentation as much)

At what point does having a preference turn in to being bigoted? I feel weird that I have different preferences for men and women. I don't identify as pan because I think my sexual attraction is very dependent on gender presentation and have never been attracted a very androgenous person (though I've loved many as friends.) I have never been with a non binary person although that's not a barrier depending on how they presented. I see a lot of people saying bi and pan are the same but I disagree due to that; am I wrong?

Does not being attracted to more androgynous folks and masc women make me...a bad person?

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