We can see that you’re already on 5 different r4r subreddits exchanging dick pics with dudes and asking to be bred. And there’s nothing wrong with that in a vacuum! But there is absolutely so, so, so much that is wrong with doing that in a marriage that has been monogamous to this point.

Realizing your sexuality isn’t justification to cheat! Sending photos of your genitals to other people online would be considering cheating in like 99% of all monogamous relationships. It’s not more ok because you’re sending them to a man. Imagine how you’d feel knowing your wife sent nudes to random men. Being bisexual isn’t a natural inclination to cheat and you don’t have inherent ‘needs’ that deserve to be met at the expense of your spouse who loves you!!

You’re allowed to want to explore and experiment and that doesn’t make you an asshole. But you jumping headfirst into that at the expense of everything and everyone else in your life isn’t happening because you’re bisexual, it’s because you’re an asshole. And you doing it online doesn’t do much to make it less hurtful to your spouse.

And also you’re likely the 5th person minimum this week asking essentially the same fucking question so you can just use the search bar and save us all some time.

Sorry for this rant but eventually the repetition of this genre of post hurts my soul. And the folks I’m calling out aren’t the confused ones who aren’t cheating. It’s absolutely the ones who are arranging meet ups while pretending on here that this is just some kinky idea in their head.