I (32F) was with the same person for 14 years. I am out of practice with flirting. Men seem to be easier to flirt with - they're more easily impressed and the conversation generally isn't as deep. I feel out of my depth when I'm trying to flirt with women, and when receiving flirting from them. It's so bad that I have, now twice, only found out I was on a date with a woman after the date was over.

I hung out with a beautiful woman Saturday night. We had drinks and apps, smoked together, went to a new restaurant in town, then went to play pool. Today I told her it was impressive that she took a hands free photo of her new nails. She replied with "😉 I can do a lot with no hands" and like....🥵

What do I say? How do I handle myself? I don't want to come off too strong and end up being creepy. I feel ridiculous for being this old and not knowing how to flirt better 😫