This is something I have struggled to admit to even myself for a long time.

I’ve finally come to the conclusion that I’m bi, and I have fantasies that I think I would like to explore. Our bedroom has been dying, and I’m finding our routine sex life to be boring.

Strip clubs and porn have been off limits in our relationship (we both have struggled with anxiety and trust due to past relationships). I’m a little nervous about it, but I want to ask if we can start watching porn together and even try going to a strip club together.

I think it would be hot to watch some other woman dance on him while having the security of knowing she is doing this for her job and not emotionally interested in him. If that goes well, I may even want to try a threesome, which would definitely require that I tell him I think I’m bi.

I just don’t know the best way to go about telling him all this without upsetting him? Has anyone successfully done this before? Any tips or advice?