Hey,

I'm a French bi 28 M, i know it since I'm 15 and I have come out to quite everyone except my family.

I mostly date girls for "emotional relationships'' and meet guys for sexual relationships.

The point is that all my relationships, whether a "serious" one with a girl or a "casual" one with a guy gone wrong because of my yo-yo mood : when i'm with a girl I don't manage to stay monogamous and want to meet guys, and usually cheat on the girl to have casual sex with guys (for me it's very different from sex with a girl and doesn't change the emotional relationship we have but I can understand mort people don't think the same and it has always killed my relationships...) and when I met a guy casually, some of them want more, to get emotionnaly involved and I don't manage to step further and get emotionnaly engaged with them...

Every week I wake up with a mood change : "one Day I want a boy, the other it's definetly girls" and it is changing very often and I don t manage to build anything solid and to project a minimum it's quite harassing.

Has anyone been in this situation and if so how you managed it ? Any help is more than welcomed, do.not.hesitate to come pm to discuss about it. Thanks to all ! :)