So, this is not fully related to my coming out to my wife. Though, her not fully accepting me on a fundamental level kind of pushed it over the edge for me. I’ve not been happy for most of our marriage, but I’m also not unhappy, if that makes sense.

We’ve been talking a lot since I asked if she was ok with me being bi this last weekend. (First told her 8 years ago). She said she wants to try everything to keep me, but I’m just. I don’t know that I want to fix this. I’m exhausted from trying to change who I am and never feeling like I’m good enough. She’s surprised I’ve been feeling this way. But it’s been becoming increasingly clear to me that this isn’t going to work long term for me.

So that brings me to what the next steps look like. I know lawyers, discussions with each other on how to separate and all that. But if anyone has gone through this, any advice or expectations I should have? Especially with my sexuality being a contributing factor?