I (17f), after years of wondering, think I'm actually bisexual. Not totally sure yet, but I think. I've practically never dated in my life, just once when I was 12. I have no romantical experience at all and I'm kinda oblivious on flirting stuff. And I was considering the idea of being in a relationship with a woman, but how do you know a girl is actually into girls ? Asking directly might be odd or rude, but imagine if she sees you purely as a friend while you want romance ? Like ik it happened a lot for straight relationships too but it's different when it's two women. There are more straight people in the world so there's a great posibility the girl doesn't even imagine a romance with you. It's not like a straight guy and a straight girl where there's most of the time this tension, or the possibility in both's mind even when they're friends. Idk if you get what I mean.

It sounds risky to try to date a girl actually. How can you ?