Hello,

I'm 31, woman, female. I've never been with another woman aside from drunken make outs. I've been told by most everyone I've known or met that I come off as lesbian and I known I'm straight. I love having sex with men but I have always been interested in women. I know this is quite common as well but when I get off from porn, it's almost always two women. I find female bodies beautiful, and women just stunning. Comparatively to our counterparts. But women intimidate me. As well, I'm intimidating. Men are SO easy to hook up with or fall in love with and it's very fun. I know I'll be more so rejected by women and I think that frightens me most but, how should I flirt with other women?

I'm in a new relationship with a man, who is bisexual. We communicate our interest in polyamory, although I've only ever been in monogomous relationships.
I'd like to be comfortable enough to let my sexuality flow. Anxiety I think is holding me back. How can I keep myself from feeling like a "noob", and becoming embarrassed by trying something new like flirting with women?

Oddly specific questions, thank you whomever answers.