I’m a 30yo man and I’ve been exploring my sexuality over the past months. I figured I’m probably bi and hetroromantic. But I haven’t done anything with men yet, and now I like to try.

I’ve downloaded grindr and I’ve chatted with some people already. I’ve never had the balls to go trough with anything yet tho. I want to start out with just giving oral to a guy and a lot of people were interested on the app (shocker, I know lol). But I’m a bit nervous about actually meeting up to just give him oral, especially because I’ve never done it before and I don’t know if I’ll be able to do a good job at it.

How was your first time hooking up with a man? I’d love some tips on how to go about it, some things I should expect etc. But also on some techniques on the act itself.

Thanks!