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I don't find people sexually attractive unless I know their sexuality aligns to potentially me
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I don't really know how to explain this: I can find someone physically pretty to look at, notice features I find attractive on them, but I can't imagine them in a sexual way unless know they are into women.

Example: Dove Cameron, always thought "she's pretty" but then when she came out as bi my thoughts changed to "she is incredibly sexy and beautiful".

If there isn't the possibility of them finding me sexually attractive, I just don't see them in that way. And if someone tells me they aren't attracted to me, my sexual attraction to them suddenly disappears. I didn't realise this wasn't normal until I talked to other people.

It's not that I'm demi, if anything I've always identified more on the fray side as I often find maintaining sexual attraction more difficult in romantic relationships than causal fwb situations. It's just more if there's no way they could be attracted to me, I can't see them in a sexual way.

Anyone else relate to this?

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