I’m a 48 cis male in a open marriage that has been exploring my bisexual side in the last year. So far I only had a couple of experiences. I have found that I don’t find most guys themselves sexually attractive. It’s more an attraction to their genitalia. I of course have to have some sort of vibe with them to be comfortable enough to go further. I’m not really into kissing guys but it’s a gateway to their cocks. I’m really into going down and plan on bottoming soon but not really interested in topping or receiving oral. So is this a common thing? To be attracted to cock but not necessarily the guys themselves? I’m all in for exploring but it has been kind of confusing.