Let me preface this with saying I’ve never dated anyone in my life. That sounds stressful. Me and this guy have been talking for a good while now and it’s been a lot of work and patience, of course. Plus, we’re technically not in a relationship so I could talk to other people, but I choose not to. Except on Sunday, I started talking to this other dude and less than 24 hours he’s already trying to shoot his shot and asking for nudes. And i’m just not that kind of person, call me a prude idc. But I really just don’t understand why we can’t just have a conversation, why is it just hrny on main all the time (i’m like 80% sure i’m somewhat on the ace spectrum)? It just seems all the men I have come across and I talk to the conversation just devolves into sx and whatnot. So, if any of it doesn’t work out then I think I’m done with men. I just wanted to get that out there.