So this is a big post for me and it seems this is a fun safe space for it. 33 M in Chicago and I'm Bi. I've know for a very long time that I am and have had fun experimenting over the years. Very few know personally and I want to keep it that way. I do on the other hand want to engage with more Bi (or even gay) people in the right areas; to the point of privately dating another man or find a male friend who just so happens to be physically involved with me. I'm very comfortable being Bi on the DL (very proud of who I am) but def not comfortable being "loud" about it; not sure if that makes sense lol. Is this common for others or am I just an odd ball? Open to any DM or discussion on this post