I see post all the time about "fell in love with my bestfriend" or what-not. My situation is different, we both love each other, no questions. Would do anything for the other. Neither one of us would ever want to be in a relationship with each other though, it's a real platonic love.

That being said, we cross those platonic lines sometimes by kissing, flirting, cuddling, etc. I don't fall in love, and that leads me to my infatuation problem. It's easier (but still hard!) for me to detach from these erratic waves I get when it's somebody I just met/hardly really know. I can't detach from one of my closest friends though.

How do you all get over infatuation? She's "straight", I'm openly Bi.

Edit: When I care for an individual, I tend to be too intense. It's a fault, I know, I'm working on it.