So, it has been a few lovely months since I fully accepted and embraced the fact that I am bi (I still think of myself as demi primarily). And I am happy as a clsm about it.

But...whom to tell? And why?

My guideline is to share such things on a combination of need-to-know-basis (necessity), and deserves-to-know-basis (at my laisure). Yet, there is only one living soul I told (because deseeving, and she's not my mother).

So: Who would even need to know? I don't think partners do (they would have to deserve it). And close family and friends can be deservin, but the topic never comes up, and why drop a bomb that was not called for?

What's your take?