Recently, and mainly after (or even during) I have sex with men, I tend to question whether or not I am attracted to men. But I've never had a relationship with a woman, so I have nothing to compare. I've been through the lesbian master doc a few times and am pretty sure I have some genuine attraction to men, maybe just not some of the ones I've been with. I have been more actively seeking a queer relationship recently because of this, so perhaps that would help me? I think another part of it comes with the baggage of not wanting to leave bisexuality and make people in my life believe it was “just a phase.” I don't know what I'm expecting to get from posting this other than to share it and maybe get some people in similar positions.

Note: this is also posted on r/actuallesbians