So my wife and I are really working on communication about our sex life. In discussing things, I told her that I think giving blowjobs and doing anal would be a turn on but that I'm not really attracted to men otherwise. Trans women though would be very something I would be interested in, assuming they'd be interested in my wife and I.

She was very supportive and indicated that this would be something we could "explore" if I wanted to. At the same time she said she wasn't really wanting to bring other people into our marriage. I'm confused as to how you explore those feelings without actually doing them. For reference she does do me with a strap on and that's all great. So I guess I thought maybe we were already exploring it. What would all of you read on the situation?