So my friend last year started asking if I was gay and I basically said “idk” until Christmas break I finally looked into my sexuality after years of denying I ever was even into girls and guys at the same time. But I found out, came out to my mom and friends, and started to hang out with my queer friends more. But, I’m incredibly confused on where I should go from here. A bunch of my queer friends are super experienced and I’m the complete opposite. Not to mention, I’m even more confused because my friend said to look into if I was demiromantic since they said I exhibit those characteristics (as to why I haven’t dated anyone or something).

Another thing is that I don’t even know how to embrace my newfound identity. I’m a black girl and that was always my identity but now I’m a bisexual black girl and I don’t know how to express my sexuality like that. I’m happy that I can express who I am but there’s just a layer of awkwardness rn.

Literally anyone can help, I just need to know what my next steps should be.