I’m a bisexual man. I thought I was a gay man for awhile but I am definitely attracted to women. I’m open to sex with women, dating women, etc etc. I genuinely think women are insanely hot.

But people seem to genuinely think I’m not attracted to girls because I’m still camp and effeminate and I don’t want to give that up. It makes me sad because I’d really like more experience with girls but I don’t want to give up a part of myself just for that and so many girls seem to just want manly men, which I know I can’t be.

I don’t know if any other bi men feel this way but sometimes I just say I’m gay because I’m not sure if I’ll have a chance with girls without pretending to be something I’m not.