Okay so he’s repressed a lot and I can provide more context for where there might be questions but I’m trying not to assume anything and treat him the way I’d want to be treated. I’ve known the sexuality and that he’s also never been with another guy. This weekend we decided to look more into (been together 5 years) he told me something I didn’t know before and that was that he wanted to be more feminine and dress more femme like crips for men, shorter shorts, and some makeup. I want to also mention that I’m the only person who knows. He’s 28 and I’m 30 bi woman. Hes known this about himself for a long time. Well represssd a lot too. I’d found trans porn and the hypno stuff on his search history before. I guess with this new revelation I have insecurities for myself and worry there’s more repression. He told me that he loves me and loves his own masculinity. I guess it’s just really new and I’m being supportive but I do have insecurities and want to navigate this well. This weekend I was more dominant in the bedroom and when he told me that I gave it some thought and then I laid out some clothes of mine for him to wear to see what he liked and stuff I wouldn’t mind and to sort of gauge where that was at. He says he’s only sexually but not romantically attracted to men as well. I don’t know if what I want to understand more makes sense but if you can try and help me sort stuff out with myself and the situation I would appreciate it.