Sorry in advance if I make mistakes as english is bot my first language.

So I wanna know once and for all what is my sexual orientation. I am asking here because I have known for a long time I am neither hetero, gay or bi by the standards. I think I fall in between bi curious, hetero sexual, or something like that.

Let me explain. When I was younger I did not ask myself too many questions, but I had sexual experiences with both guys and girls. I am a guy btw. With guys, it was only soft things. Mutual masturbation, oral sex, and that's it. I never ever had a crush on a guy, kissed a guy, or try penetration. It's really not my cup of tea. But the things I tried I enjoyed. With girls, though, I had crushes, Feller in love, kissed, and basically did everything sexually With them and I enjoyed.

Time passed and I stopped having stuff with guys they became only my friends and I only dated girls. Then, like 15 years later, I started missing that. The things I did with the guys. Again, no Kiss with guys, no love, just playing with each others junk. I don't even find other man's attractive, neither their faces, just their junk. Because of that I recently restarted to have sexual experiences with other man, like watching each other jerk off in man nude saunas, helping each other, etc. I also have a girl I am currently seeing and we like to go to a swingers club. She doesn't know everything but she knows I am fine when we are two men with her.

Basically I just wanna be honest about my sexual orientation if I meet other interesting girls or everyone in general. I am not scared to do my coming out, but I don't wanna tell the whole story like I just did here with all the exemples. So I guess there is a specific term for my orientation.

I know I am not only hetero, nor gay, but I do not think I am bi also because the things I like with other mens are really limited. So what sexual orientation do I have?

Thanks in advance for the answers