I'm bi m 38 in UK. I've just started a new job, and joined a really nice team and have settled in well really quickly. I'm not 'out' to many people, a very select few, but since splitting with ex gf nearly 18 months ago I thought fuck it, I have nothing to be ashamed of, I'm not going to be overt about stuff, but if a situation arose I would be completely honest about my sexuality. The other day, a colleague was asking questions of female colleagues (only because they were the only people in the office, it wasn't exclusively a discussion between women), about whether they would date a guy if...for example, a guy with a foot fetish, if they had been in prison. When she said she was struggling to think of another question, I asked if they would date a guy who had slept with men. Some of the comments, wow...ok, was about dating someone, but has seriously made me reconsider my stance of coming out if situation arose. But makes sense why I had been struggling on dating sites. Ah well, such a shame to see my concerns played out. ah well.