As the title says, I’m bi and haven’t been with many girls. Always had a weird relationship with women in general because of some childhood trauma which has made coming to terms with my bisexuality difficult. Recently I met and connected with an amazing woman (26F). Things have progressed pretty well. Which is shocking to me as that never happens with females. Anyway it is clear that we will become physical soon but I’m pretty nervous about it.

It’s been a while since I’ve been with a woman and even then I don’t have a ton of experience. Just a couple ons and a complicated, undesirably vanilla marriage. Therefore, I’m not too confident when it comes to sex with women. She seems pretty confident and fairly experienced with sex. I just don’t want to let her down and blow this.

The only thing I’m moderately confident about is my oral skills. However, her long term ex was a woman so I know I won’t be able to compete there. Otherwise, I at least know my anatomy but honestly not sure I’ll know all I should do. I’m also not particularly “gifted” in the nether regions 😂 so can’t really rely on that either.

Any advice on how to prepare or what to do would be greatly appreciated.