I’m F23 dating this girl F24. And it’s going great. We’re both bi. We’ve been dating for about 4 months now. We both seem to really like each other. We FaceTime every day spend the night at each others places 4 or 5 times out the week. Great conversation. The only issue but the sexual aspect of our relationship is just so weird. We make out things get hot and heavy and she’ll start touching me which I enjoy. But then I go to touch her and it’s a no-go. She said that she wanted to try and keep sex off the table. And I was like cool, no problem, no rush. But then we’re just stuck in this loop of starting and stopping her starting then when I try anything she stops me and then I stop her bc I don’t enjoy one sided sex. Then I thought maybe she just doesn’t want to be touched. Then we got drunk one (this actually happened twice) and she’s telling me all about her sex life snd experiences and there were a lot and all the ones she described were with men. And I’m like wtf?? Bc I can’t tell how recent these experiences are bc we’re not monogamous. Sometimes im like this girl is awesome other times im like am I getting played like a fool or if I’m being weird.