Hey. This has been playing on my mind lately so I figured I'd post about it. Are you a closetted bi? Do you have imposter syndrome? Me too. My parent's and boyfriend's family do not know I'm bi. But my boyfriend knows. When I tell people in the lgbtq community that I'm bi but I'm dating my straight boyfriend, I feel a little judged, hence another reason why I'm not consistently out.

Now this doesn't mean everyone in the community feels this way about me, and fuck what people think anyway, but I feel bad categorizing myself in the lgtbqia because....I'm not going through the same hardships as others in the community are or I'm not discriminated like others are. I don't feel like the title is mine. And I plan to marry the man I love but I'm still grounded in knowing I am bi because half the shows we watch, I'm into more of the girls than I am into the guys in the stories.

Labels are weird, sure they help us understand the world a little more, but labels are complicated. As a bisexual, what do you think?