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Trust vs hook-up culture
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Slowely but surely coming out I (35m) am very shy and emotionally insecure.

I burried my bisexuality in the past due to traumatic events and am now slowly regaining the confidence to engage with other men and trans-people.

It took me two years of building up the trust for my first gay sex. But the gay hook-up culture seems extremly fast-paced (especially around Berlin).

Can any of you relate to the emotional support and trust needed? How did you navigate your desires vs your need for security?

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