Answer: I AM! Well, not in so many words. This is just the TLDR. If you’re interested, read on

Context: I’ve always identified as someone who found women attractive. As I got older I found myself attracted to men. Had my first sexual experience sexual experience with a man at 17. Never a woman.

So while I’m Amsterdam I decided I would finally have sex with a woman. Walked around the Red Light district looking and honestly many of them just weren’t my type. Not unattractive women but Kardashian types. That’s to say they’re attractive but they’ve had work done— which is fine they still looked gorgeous. Just not something I find sexually attractive. I finally found a woman I had the most interest in. Still not exactly my type but I was sexually attracted to her.

Why never before? Emotionally I have a lot of respect for women. I’m a man so I think like one. I know how easy I’m willing to be, so certainly other men are too? Yes, yes they are. I’m sure many women also are. But small man brain no make sense.

We chatted, we agreed on our services, I paid my €100, and we went to her room. I know this sounds very transactional because at the inside it is. But she was very kind and sweet about the interaction. She gave me a hug because she could clearly tell I was nervous. Then I followed her back through the hallways to her room. It’s a simple little room with a sink, a few ledges to keep things on, and a very basic bed. She covers the quick ground rules: any position I want, I can touch and kiss her body. So she kind starts rubbing me down and getting me aroused. It didn’t take too long but with it being my first time, being nervous, and not sure what to make of it, it was certainly slower than it would be typically with a man.

So she lays me down, gets me gloved and lubed, and she hops on. Needless to say, I enjoyed myself. I didn’t switch positions as I was perfectly alright with her on top and I tend to last longer that way. She’s on top, I’m doing my thing, and it’s a good time. I finish and we kind of just sit for a bit while I touch and kiss her body.

Conclusion: I definitely enjoyed it and wouldn’t be against it in the future (maybe not for €100, don’t normally pay). Still, I think I definitely prefer men. As a rule, I just find hookups with men more accessible. Plus, the ever looming risk of procreation. But it is nice to have that big question answered once and for all.

Edit: holy mistakes, Batman. Grammar, spelling, omitted words.

Edit: I’m in a 10 year relationship with a man. We are open and I asked his complete permission to do this as typically women have been a rule for me to not meet up with. It was never an issue, I respect his rules. But figured this was a great opportunity so I asked.