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How to respond when someone starts inferring sexuality
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Okay, let me first present that recently I have been getting a lot of inferments about my sexuality. Let me express that I do not think myself as attracted to either gender even though I prefer woman, I find it easier to get aroused with men.

Anyways to the meat of what I am coming here for. People keep on inferring about my sexuality and how gay I am and I am not sure how I can respond. An example is as follows: "Your voice sounds gay". "Oh, do you know RuPaul Drag racing". "You are very gentle". "I have a non binary friend you would love". "I have never met a gay_". "I am setting you up with my gay friend".

People won't outrightly ask if I am gay, they would assume and go on with their assumptions. I really hate it and it is very frustrating. It is like I am assuming a straight man's gay, oh that is not cool -- but it is cool to assume mine ???

So asking all my bisexual interweb people. How would you respond to this?

Also, when someone incorrectly assumes I am gay. I don't correct them that I am bisexual -- is this right?

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