I feel like I may know the answer to this but it confuses and vexes me a little.

I'm verse but lean towards bottoming with men for the reasons that A) it feels good, and B) it seems like the guys im attracted to (on the side of more masc side) just don't.

I have only had a handful of men as partners in the last year of being out and only one has wanted to bottom. I respect that people have preferences but i cant help but shake the suspicion that there is some stigma bs around bottoming based on some of my hookups behaviors and a weird possibly homophobic(?) remark from one of them.

Is this actually a thing i need to be aware of moving forward with my exploration? Or am i overthinking it?