Ok it wasn't just A girl. It was one of my best friends. We got really drunk and has the most amazing sex. It lasted hours and neither of us wanted it to end, the only reason it did was because we'd stayed up all night and we were exhausted.

I've always identified as bi but never had an experience like this before. It was emotional and raw and delicious and ecstasy and just everything all at once.

I'm married to a man and we've had a discussion (well, several) about what this means for us and our relationship and he's happy for me to explore this as long as I communicate well with him and get the green light. If he ever pulls the plug and says no then it means no and I'll respect that because he is my husband.

But relationship complications aside, I'm so excited about the future and what this could mean. I feel like this experience has opened up a world I never thought I'd be able to explore after marrying a guy.

Every time I think about it my whole body pulsates, happy to talk about the details more if people want to discuss but oh my life. Wow.

TL;DR - I kissed a girl and I liked it! A lot! And will continue to do it!!!

Edit: apologies if I've perpetuated a stereotype that bi folx cheat, that was ignorance on my part. I could've deleted my post yesterday before coming here but I didn't, because I'm not trying to hide from the fact I cheated. I did, and I continue to atone for that. I am very lucky to be in the marriage I am in. The reason I posted this was that we had a lot of conversations after I told my husband and he is fine with this. He doesn't see it as a threat to our marriage and neither do I, it wasn't to brag. I wanted to share an experience that I thought you guys here would appreciate, some of whom did and I've had some awesome conversations which I truly appreciate.