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How do you keep an amazing long term relationship after your partner of 27 years tells you he is Bi?
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My husband and I have been together since we were 16. We are 42 now. He recently accepted that he is bi-sexual. I'm happy for him and want to support him the best way I can.

Is there anyone else in a similar situation? We are slightly concerned that he will find a guy that is too tempting since he has never had any experience with another man.

We adore each other and have contemplated polyamory, but both of us feel the same that we are not comfortable with the other person having a relationship outside of our amazing marriage.

Does anyone have words of advice for what the road down this amazing path will lead us? Because we met so young and grew up in a very judgmental home, he suppressed his feelings and never had experiences with another man.

We have amazing conversations, but any advice is great.

He wants to make more friends, especially bi-friendly friends, but he is worried about what may come from new bi-male friendships.

We are in the new "enlightened" phase. Afraid to be too open with most family and friends, but I want to help him be comfortable with the person he is. 🩷💜🩵

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