2/17 edit - For anyone trying to contact me
- didn't really think i was going to need to put this here but here we are.
- If your profile is completely empty and new and there is nothing i can tell about you at from it and your intro message/chat is just a hello i am unlikely to respond much
- If your profile is nothing but pictures of your genitalia and personals trying to find someone to F***. You do you or whoever you find to do but i am very likely not going to be interested in talking.
- I am first and foremost trying to find friends who could potentially evolve in to more. i'm ok if the evolution is to FWB but it has to be natural. If you are contacting me to become my friend so we can f*** please kindly move on i am not interested. Sex is not even close to my highest priority. It is something enjoyable to do with those i care about and if ALL you want is sex then i will not care about you.

I am a 33 (34 in April) pansexual/demisexual ENM partnered (married, she knows about this ) male looking to get to know and meet new people in the poly community. I'm hoping to meet people who can get along with my brand of goofyness and weirdness and make new friends. I hope to eventually meet people who can grow into partners and life long friends with me!

Feel free to direct message me here on reddit. If we click i use discord or google hangouts or other ways to more easily keep in contact.

What i'm looking for: People who want to be geeky and have fun and cuddle/snuggle a lot. Who want to share passions and always work on growing and getting better. Friends. I want to grow my network and meet people and hopefully find more among friends!!! For friends i don't really care about distance. If you want to eventually be more than friends you need to be within about 3 hours of me cause after the pandemic i want to be able to see and hangout with people and a relationship (FWB or LTR) that is more than friends would need to be around me.

Although new (3-4 months as of posting) to actually looking at polyamory it is something i have wanted for a long time. Would really like to become part of a polycule of people all living and working together to improve their lives!

Big things about me.
- I am married but me and my wife do not date together.

- The kind of poly relationship i want though i believe is called kitchen table so i would definitely like it if eventually any partners i have are all comfortable with each other. I just want to live with a bunch of partners and people i love and care about and who love and care about me XD

- I am a very physically affectionate person and want to cuddle/touch/hug all the time.

- My trust is easy to earn but once broken not easily gained back

- i hate trump. if you like trump in anyway goodbye. If you like how things were run for the past 4 years we probably won't really get along. I am toward the left in so much as i believe people deserve basic human rights and decency and the ability to live- Pro-Choice / Black Live Matter / Trans Rights Matter / Sex Workers are workers. Basically people have rights to live their lives!!!!!!!!!!

- 420 friendly (i won't be doing it but i don't care if you do) - I am chubby and a bit overweight so if that bothers you goodbye. I am always trying to do better with some exercising and eating better but i am never going to a be thin person.

- I am very geeky and nerdy and tend to reference things a lot

.- I also make absolutely terrible puns and bad jokes XD. I will probably be king of dad jokes one day

- not particularly kinky but mainly cause i havn't had too much chance to explore. Definitely open to exploring.

- sex-positive, body-positive

-I have a cat but i love dogs too. I love almost any pet except arachnids. not knocking anyone who has arachnids for pets but NO.

General plethora of things i enjoy hugs, cuddles, sex, video games, board/card ames, roleplaying games, cosplaying, prop making, drawing, books, movies, music, food, cooking, collecting figures and plushies.

If you are still here thanks for reading through and sorry for so much. Just wanted to give people as much of a look at me as possible.
if you've gotten this far here is a link to my OKC account which has more info and some pictures of me. https://www.okcupid.com/profile/2889184807101384135

So here are some things that if you like we will definitely at least get along and can be friends :)
Monster Hunter,
Blood Bowl,
Games (video, card, board, or tabletop),
Deadlands,
Animated Movies,
VR,
Star Wars
Clone Wars,
Heave Ho
there are many more but these were just some cool one off the stop of my head.

Here are some things that are going to be be big marks against you. Not knocking you for doing it, to each their own but its things I would like to avoid in my life:
Smoking cigarettes,
doesn't drive,
alcoholic (this is not you enjoy drinking. This is someone who actually has a drinking problem and they aren't doing anything to try and fix it)
You are not geeky/nerdy/dorky in the slightest XD