So over the pandemic, I got close with a new group of friends. I’m in my 30s and this group is mainly girls in their mid 20s and a few other dudes. Naturally there is a lot of attraction and flirting happening between everyone.

I’m a shorter dude, 5’5, but I do pretty well for myself with hooking up. One of my friends who is 5’10 said she thought of me as a “short king” which was kind of funny, and that she thought I was hot and funny. We got drunk at a cafe and flirted for a couple hours. At one point she asked if I had a big dick.

I know some people would say “well ask her if she wants to find out” but that felt too corny for me personally, so I just simply said “I’ve been told I’m pretty big”

I can tell that excited her, but now I’m sitting here thinking “should I have said that?” Everyone associates big with length, but Im mainly just thick. Should I have said “I’m average but thick”

I’m probably over thinking it, but I’d be interested in knowing what you think