I feel like the conversation never really focuses on how men feel, and I’m sure there are plenty of dudes who don’t really stop to process it and are just happy to be having sex.

Recently I’ve been trying to feel “attractive” in bed. It feels like a not-so-masculine thing to say, but who cares, it feels nice. I’ve been working out, trying to eat better, and really focusing on how I smell.

For the first time while having sex, I felt very “attractive” and the girl I was sleeping with was super into to it. It felt like size played a role a little bit in how I felt. It was like the sex I was having was almost on a purely primal spiritual level haha.

Afterwards I felt weird, almost guilty, like I had allowed some weird form of narcissism out. Like there is some kind of expectation to not lean into an almost primal “I have a big dick” brain. But it was also the best sex I’ve ever had. I felt “desired” and sexy and while it was based on more than my dick, it played a bigger role than I’d like to admit.

Wondering if anyone relates to this?