Most insecurities around sex and men revolve around their size. Men who are average or smaller want to hear how women don’t care about penis size, and men who are big want to be reassured that they were big and share stories of how their gf was in love with their dicks.

I feel like these things are such contradictions, and I’m totally guilty I’m sure in some way. For example I loved hearing my girlfriend say how big and hot my dick is, but then felt so insecure when she mentioned sleeping with a bigger guy.

I’ve since gotten over that, but I found it hilarious that I wanted her to be into big dicks but live in a fantasy where I was the biggest

How do you guys feel about this?