I have never told anyone this but here it goes. When I was in my early 20s (I’m 43 now)I had back to back partners whose comments messed with my head for years. Both of them remarked that I was on the small side but they still both came back for seconds and thirds. I have had multiple partners before and after who had the opposite reaction but it was these two women whose comments haunted me. My wife would tell me that I was sometimes too big but I would think she was just stroking my ego and not being honest. It wasn’t until I joined this group that I realized two things. 1) I am 7x5.75 and that isn’t small. 2) I have been wearing the wrong condoms my entire life (no wonder I hated them so much).

I do wonder why they would say I was small. Maybe they were just assholes, lol.

In conclusion I wanted to thank the group for helping me see myself correctly. And sorry for the long post.