Like many of you, I know the numbers but am still a little in disbelief of my size being "above average". On top of that, I have big thighs and a substantial upward-left curve and so it never looks "big" to me.

I've been working out a lot because of quarantine and noticed that EQ has improved, so I decided to do the TP roll challenge again the other night. It was much snugger than usual, which was a nice ego boost, but then I did something that I haven't seen suggested here before: I trimmed the TP roll down to the girth of the average erect penis and held it next to my own. It was quite the visual and for the first time really hammered it home just how big my guy is. I don't consider myself to be a show-er but when I recompared next to my flaccid that was quite the surprise as well. Who knew! Anyway, I hope this suggestion helps someone as much as it helped me to gain some additional perspective.